Funeral Service for Verna A. Elcock nee Johnson

Mrs. Verna Elcock was laid to rest on April 10th, 2026. On behalf of The Bahamas YWCA, Rosalie Fawkes honored the veteran member in a newsletter issued in March 2026.

View the full funeral program here.

Her lifelong friend, Rosemary Hanna, gave the following tribute at a memorial service held on Tuesday April 8th, 2026.

TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR FRIEND VERNA JOHNSON ELCOCK

LOVE IS POSITIVE! MY DEAREST LIFELONG FRIEND, VERNA JOHNSON ELCOCK,

LIVED A POSITIVE LOVING LIFE.

VERNA AND I WERE VERY CLOSE FRIENDS FROM THE TIME WE WERE TODDLERS

UP TO THE TIME OF HER PASSING. WE PLAYED DOLL HOUSE TOGETHER AND

ATTENDED CHURCH HERE AT ST. AGNES ON SUNDAYS INCLUDING SUNDAY

SCHOOL AND MASS IN THE MORNINGS, SUNDAY SCHOOL AGAIN AT 4 PM AND

EVENSONG AT 7 PM. WE ALWAYS SAT OVER THERE ON THE NORTHERN SIDE OF

THE CHURCH AND TRIED TO OUTSING EACH OTHER, BUT SHE ALWAYS WON,

BECAUSE HER VOICE WAS BIGGER THAN MINE. WE WERE INVOLVED IN THE

GUILD UNDER SISTER THECLA MARY, AND ALL OF THE SUNDAY SCHOOL

ACTIVITIES. WE WERE ALSO MEMBERS OF THE ST. AGNES YOUNG PEOPLE’S

ASSOCIATION (AYPA) AND, OF COURSE WE BOTH SANG IN THE CHOIR FOR

MANY YEARS.

AT HIGH SCHOOL TIME VERNA WENT TO ST. JOHN’S COLLEGE AND I TO

GOVERNMENT HIGH SCHOOL, BUT THAT NEVER CHANGED OUR CLOSE

FRIENDSHIP. DURING THE 50s A FAIR NUMBER OF PARENTS IN OUR

NEIGHBOURHOOD SENT THEIR CHILDREN TO BOARDING SCHOOLS IN JAMAICA;

AND VERNA AND I BECAME SCHOOLMATES AT WESTWOOD HIGHT SCHOOL IN

STEWART TOWN, TRELAWNEY, WAY OUT IN THE COUNTRY HILLS.

FORTUNATELY FOR ME, THE LATE MERCIA STRAHAN WAS ALSO A STUDENT

AHEAD OF ME AND I RECALL HER TELLING ME AS WE DROVE ALONG THE

WINDING HILLS THAT WHEN WE PASSED A CERTAIN BEND, THE BUILDING ATOP

A HILL THAT LOOKED LIKE A HAUNTED HOUSE WAS WESTWOOD HIGH SCHOOL

AND MY HEART SANK! MY FIRST TERM WAS TRAUMATIC, BUT VERNA CAME

SOON AFTER AND NO ONE COULD GET BETWEEN US…. WHAT A RELIEF THAT

WAS! OVERALL WESTWOOD WAS AN ENRICHIHNG EXPEREIENCE. VERNA

ENTERED THE ARTS FESTIVALS AND WON ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS; AND SHE

AND I WERE PART OF A SMALL GROUP OF SINGERS WHO SOMETIMES

PERFORMED AT CHURHES IN THE AREA.

VERNA WAS ALWAYS FRUGAL AND ABOVE ALL SELF DISCIPLINED (WHICH IS

MORE THAN I COULD SAY FOR MYSELF). AT THE BEGINNING OF THE SCHOOL

TERM WE WERE ALLOWED TO BRING SPECIAL SNACKS TO OCCASIONALLY TREAT

OURSELVES. I CAN REMEMBER VERY CLEARLY THAT NEAR THE END OF ONE

TERM, AND LONG AFTER I HAD DEVOURED ALL OF MY TREATS, VERNA VERY

CASUALLY PULLED OUT A PACKAGE OF CUSTARD CREAM COOKIES AND I BEGAN

TO SALIVATE!! LISTEN!! THOSE COOKIES WERE MORE THAN A TREAT OUT IN THE

COUNTRY, AND VERNA VERY GRACIOUSLY SHARED THE PACKAGE WITH OUR

ROOM MATE AND ME.

UPON OUR RETURN HOME WE RESUMED ACTIVITIES AT CHURCH, JOINED THE

YWCA AND ALSO SANG IN THE Y CHORALE UNDER THE DIRECTION OF MS. ERNA

MASSIAH, WHO WAS A TEACHER FROM BARBADOS. IT WAS DURING THIS TIME

IN THE EARLY 60s WHEN THE CHORALE PRACTICED UP THE HILL AT WESTERN

SENIOR SCHOOL, THAT I NOTICED A YOUNG MAN HANGING AROUND AND

OCCASIONALLHY POKING HIS HEAD INTO THE CHOIR ROOM APPARNTLY

SERCHING FOR VERNA. IT TURNED OUT THAT HE WAS A POLICE OFFICER FROM

BARBADOS. I ASSUMED THAT MS. MASSIAH MUST HAVE GIVEN HER STAMP OF

APPROVAL AND THE ROMANCE BETWEEN FREDDIE ELCOCK AND VERNA

BLOSSOMED, RESULTING IN THEIR MARRIAGE ON HER BIRTHDAY ON 26 TH

AUGUST 1965. THEY HAD A LOVELY WEDDING RECEPTION IN THE GARDENS OF

THE ROYAL VICTORIA HOTEL, WHICH WAS THE FIRST TIME THAT MOST OF US

SAW THE INSIDE OF THAT PLACE.

A FEW YEARS LATER VERNA AND FREDDIE’S PERCIOUS GEM AND ONLY

DAUGHTER, AVRIL, CAME ALONG AND I WAS HAPPY TO STAND AS HER

GODMOTHER. THANK GOD THAT AVRIL GREW TO EXPERIENCE LOVE,

MARRIAGE, AND COMPANIONSIOP, WITH RANDY MAJOR. IT WAS A TERRIBLE

BLOW WHEN FREDDIE PASSED; AND WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS THE GRIEF WE

ALL FELT AT AVRIL’S SUDDEN PASSING. BUT GOD WAS IN CONTROL AND

BROUGHT VERNA THROUGH IT ALL.

MY FRIEND WAS A CARING AND LOVING CHRISTIAN WOMAN AND IN MY 80+

YEARS KNOWING HER, I NEVER HEARD HER UTTER A NEGATIVE WORD ABOUT

ANYONE. SHE ALWAYS CHARMED EVERYONE WITH HER BEAUTIFUL BRILLIANT

SMILE, AND SHE EARNED THE LOVE AND RESPECT OF ALL.

RUTHIHE BOWE AS YOU SAID, SHE WAS YOUR ONE GOOD AUNTIE AND I

COMMEND AND THANK YOU, YOUR SIBLINGS, RANDY AND MS. BETHUNE FOR

THE LOVING AND TENDER CARE THAT YOU TOOK OF MY PRECIOUS FRIEND.

REST IN PEACE MY DARLING VERNA.

TO GOD BE THE GLORY FOR THE THINGS HE HAS DONE! AMEN.

The Dedication of Elcock and Wells.

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